There's no point in trying to fix the Extrinsic Self when it gets broken. It is meant to get broken, we could say - it has no future but to be broken. The whole point is that it should be...
All rational-type psychological therapies, without exception, involve making something happen because we want it to happen (or as we should really say, trying to make something happen that we want to happen). That's the whole idea, obviously. If we didn't...