When we're playing a finite game then we are being controlled by our need to control. We are absolutely controlled by our need to control - we couldn't be controlled more! Yet despite this we don't see this as being...
Everything that is done with a view to the self being the beneficiary is a finite game and finite games never get us anywhere. Finite play is all about ‘holding onto our position no matter what’ and so of course...
The 'will' of the Extrinsic Self relates solely to the assertion of limits and the thing about this is that these limits (any limits, for that matter) don't really exist. Asserting limits is how we create and maintain the definite...